A good number of us harbor a secret fear about our abilities or qualifications. We’re shadowed by clouds of doubt. Do you feel like a fraud and an impostor when it comes to your career? You’re not alone. I was an innovator with Impostor Syndrome. In this week’s show, I share my recent TEDxBoulder talk about my experience.
The Truth About Impostor Syndrome
Impostor syndrome is a real fear founded in unreality. It’s a fear that you’re not good enough. Maybe it’s a secret you’ve held onto that you feel discredits all you’ve accomplished. That was the case for me. After a twenty-five year, rather successful, career, my secret came out on the front page of a major newspaper. I never graduated from college. Once the secret was out, the fears dissolved in the days following. I realized others did not view me as the impostor I felt I was. All those years, I had held onto the fear and my feelings of not being up to par. In the end, it didn’t matter to others that I didn’t graduate from college. I wasn’t an impostor, but I was an innovator with Impostor Syndrome.
Overcome the Fear
Seventy-five percent of adults feel they are a fake, a fraud, not worthy, an impostor when it comes to their career. Impostor syndrome is universal, transcending titles and backgrounds. It can have crippling effects. For me, with each new success, the fear intensified. Fear is False Evidence that Appears Real. You need to test the fear. Is it real? Or is it false evidence that only appears real?
How do you overcome the Impostor Syndrome?
Two pieces of advice:
- Tell someone about your fears.
- Reveal your secret on your terms.
- Find a place and person you are comfortable with.
- Be an encourager.
- Let others know when you are impressed by their skills or abilities.
Don’t be an innovator with Impostor Syndrome. Don’t delay pushing back on Impostor Syndrome. It cost me 25 years of unneeded worry.
The TEDxBoulder Adventure
When I got the call to do a talk at TEDxBoulder, I was excited about the opportunity. While I'm a regular attender at TED, I never could have imagined the prep that goes into giving one of these talks. I had to condense a prior talk on Impostor Syndrome I gave from 45 minutes to nine minutes. I spent more time on this talk than any other talk in my entire career, bar none. The pressure was intense. What you see of TEDx on YouTube is not what you get live. Speakers may fumble, freeze, forget lines. They can pause and restart their talk if that happens. Then, it’s polished and edited on the recording for release.
The practice, the memorizing, the coaching was worth the effort. The subject definitely struck a chord with the audience. A number of people came up to me afterwards to talk about it and share their struggles with Impostor Syndrome. It was great to share my personal journey and struggle with Impostor Syndrome. I hope you’ve found it useful.
Are you looking for a place to talk about challenges in the innovation game or with Impostor Syndrome? Hop over to The Innovators Community (https://www.theinnovators.community/). It’s a free online network of innovators who help each other. I’m on The Innovators Community every day. Share your innovation struggle, post a question, or send me a private message through The Innovators Community.
To hear my experience and the truth about Impostor Syndrome, listen to this week's show, An Innovator with Impostor Syndrome.
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